http://freshome.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/bedroom-romantic.jpg This is the bedroom I'm going for. We are moving into a new house (on a military base) so I can't paint any walls and I don't know if I can do starch and fabric. This is a very romantic room and I want to copy it exact. My question is how can I change this room to a more calming room for relaxation? These colors promote active warm colors (intimacy), and colors that promote calming relaxation are cooler colors like blues and certain greens. Sometimes we just want to relax so how can I transform this room easily into a peacful area when the colors would have to be opposite?