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I need help with my friend.?

My friend is so rude and mean to me. She has made fun of my mom and dad, she said my mom had a funny name and her accent was stupid. I told her to shut up and she just laughed in my face. I told my mother about this and she just said to treat her the way I would want to be treated. So I followed her advice. She just took advantage of me. I emailed her telling her she is always hurting my feelings and her reply was this, LOLOLOLLOLOLOLOLLOLLOLLOLOLOLLOLOLOLOLLL.LLL.LOL.LOLO!!! LOLOLLOLOLOLOLOOLL I HURT YOUR FEELINGS?! LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL SORRY BUT I JUST KIND OF FIND THAT FUNNY LOLOLOLOLOOLOLLL OH SORRY IF I HURT YOUR FEELINGS AGAIN! LOLOLOL! Well of course I started crying because, here I am telling this bitch how I feel and she just insults me. She gives everyone disrespectful looks and looks everyone up and down. She thinks we're poor, even though she is living in some shack behind Target. So, here is my problem, I am stuck with her. STUCK. Her mom picks me up in the morning, and she never says hello to me or anything, I say hey and she just ignores me and looks out the window. WE have to pick her up from school everyday and bring her to our house for a couple hours. We own a truck so she automatically sits in the front passenger seat, the best seat. I sit in the back squished. My mom and dad don't like her. Basically my whole family. Shes a vacuum that sucks all the happiness and joy out of everyone. Here's another problem. There is no way out of picking her up. We are obligated to feed her whatever she wants too. And she looks at our house with disgust! Her house is pig sty! Our house is big and orderly. Yeah it may not be a straight up picture of beautiful homes magazine or whatever, but it isn't disgusting. Here is another problem: All my other friends adore her. They follow her, and practically oey her evry command. She even tells them to tie her shoes. She is so uncaring. I was very very very sick this one weekend and I was very weak. I had this project due and I couldn't do it. so the next day at school she calls me an idiot and starts arguing that I could have done it in bed. And I couldn't. I start crying again and I'm about to throw up and she looks at me with disgust and then at her other friend. They start laughing and I run in the bathroom to throw up and I stay there for hours. When I come out and bump into them, she laughs at me, which is a cue for everyone else to laugh at me too. Shes a huge problem in my life, and I can't stand her any longer. Can anyone please please help me? Thank for taking the time to read too. PLEASE ANY HELP IS GREATLY APPRECIATED. PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ. I NEED YOUR HELP. I have talked to my parents and they have talked to her mom. Her mom is exactly like her so it wasn't much help.

Public Comments

1. you dont need this as a friend you deserve better
2. MOve skool telll the principal tell her mum she a fuckwit
3. she sounds like a total b*tch. my best advice to you, is ignore her! she's not worth your time. she's just some stuck up person that doesn't only "vacuum happiness" but vacuums the attention too! your friends 'adore' her which should be a sign to tell you, you need new friends. be sure to make true friends. ignore all of this. even if she's with you like everyday. tell yourself she's gonna get karma one day, and she's not worth it. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApkrWwPpOkl3zryQeHUgA0DA7BR.;_ylv=3?qid=20090216000500AAYzTN4 i took the time to read yours, take a time to read mine & gimme advice? :)
4. i think you should try to deal with it. i mean at school i am treated that im a germ and they spread rumours about someone liking me and i was unpopular back then and they teased me and i was so sad. but if its a problem tell ur parents/teachers and this website www.kidshelpline.com.au can help if ur between the ages of 5-25 years of age. just tell her to piss off and she's a bloody idiot
5. Obsidian, this girl is just way too uncaring about your feelings. If you really want to cause her distress, say you're walking to school and picking up your friend but you really just abandon her at her house!!! Leave her in the dust. Or you can always convert to what I always do -- feeling the urge to throw them away in the trashcan and setting it on fire hearing their little screams and shrieks telling you how sorry they are but you openly listen to your i-pod with the volume super loud. Sorry, this is what I one day imagine to do to E.C. from 7C because he gets on my nerves so much. Just ignore her and laugh at all of her problems too. When she tells you a rumor, say that it's supid and you don't agree with her or her talking about other people. That or start to throw citrus i the back of their head when they aren't looking. That's what I always one day imagine to do to E.C. and K.S. Are you with me? I really hope that this helped!!! > . <
6. WOW! Why are you friends with her anyways? I don't really know what to tell you, but just try not begin so nice to her anymore. Because every time you do something for her she feels like she has control over you. (i went through something like this too.) If you go pick her up after school just sit in the back seat and don't really talk to her. And if she tells you to do stuff for her just tell her to do it herself. She needs to grow up! I hope i helped...
7. She isn't being a great friend. She doesn't know how to behave or respect you and your family. If she continues to do this, tell her that if she doesn't stop, you'll have to stop being her friend. She hurts your feelings and doesn't even care about it, don't like it continue that way. Now that all your friends like her, try and find new friends. Better, respectful, and healthier friends. "She thinks we're poor, even though she is living in some shack behind Target." She's could be only jealous. She didn't have the life the way you had. She must be going through hard time herself back at home, so she might be jealous how you have this stable family life at your house. She might think she isn't jealous, but a lot of people doesn't realize that they're being jealous. I know you mentioned that you're stuck with her, that's hard to for me to say. Maybe you should talk to your parents about how you feel. Your parents really don't like her, then they should know what's the best for you. Your parents need to talk to that girl's parents. Tell that girl's parent how disrespectful she was to your family. Your family and her family need to talk it out since the girl won't listen to you or any other people. Talk to your parents to find any other way to take you to school. Have you tried the School Bus? I don't know if there are certain requirements or something for having the bus picking you up. Seem like your parents work early morning and can't find a way to change the schedule to take you to school, right? Find anyone else who treat you better. If she kept on being rude, let HER friends to take her home or to their hosue and see how she is. "so she automatically sits in the front passenger seat, the best seat. I sit in the back squished" Okay, THAT is your family and YOUR family's car. It is not her front seat, and she's not the boss. I think you're a shy and quiet person, but you have to try and stand up to her but nothing violent. stay strong.
8. Well, first off, stop calling her your friend. This person is definitely not a friend at all. Here's some things I could suggest for you (1) Tell some of your close friends about what's she's done and ask for their help...if they are true friends, they will help you. If not, you better find some new friends. This girl is too much of a stress-causer to be tolerated. (2) I don't know if you can talk to her or your parents about it, but they might be of some help. (3) Don't let her get to you. I know inside you may be boiling, but she wants to get a reaction out of you because bullying makes her feel good. She knows you have a nicer house than her but she wants a feeling of importance so she gets it by bullying. Look at her pitying next time and just smile and see what she does.
9. Simply: She's not your friend.