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I often feel left out like no one likes me?

My whole life I've felt like an outcast. I don't have any best friends just friends i hang out at school with. Majority of my cousins are grown and those that aren't either live in another state or have other plans and don't consider me hanging out with them. I'm either at work or at school. When I'm not at school or work then i'm at home. I'm hardly ever invited anywhere (movies, restaurant, etc.).I'm always asking my mother to go to the movies with me b/c i have no one else to go with. I don't have a boyfriend ,never been in love and never been kissed. I go shopping by myself. There are times that I'm invited to go to the movies with someone or to a sleepover but that's like twice a year. I don't understand whats wrong b/c obviously something is wrong with me (am i ugly? do i smell bad? do i have something on my face?) I can't be ugly b/c every says i should be model (even ppl i dont know. no lie). I love to have fun, love movies, reading, and music. I'm very ambitious, I want to go to college and major in finance, human resources and interior design and become a financial planner/ real estate agent/ interior designer. Have all A's and one C in the devils class AP Language (the teacher is horrible). I know what i want in a boyfriend. And i know i can be great friend. Well i am to my classmates but I'm just waiting for someone to be great friend back. I watch movies all the time and i think that it has alot to do with my head being in the clouds. I want the romantic love you see in romance novels and movies- that has alot to do with my standards for a man. the "IT"boys at school say that I stuck up but really they never spoke to me to know who i truly am. Everyone around me has a boyfriend and go out on weekends which makes me feel lonely and out of place. The only friends i have is music, movies, and books which is kind of depressing. My parents are proud of me b/c i'm so open minded and not one dimensional. I into the green movement and i try to get my parents to be Eco friendly which is very hard b/c we have know ecofriendly clothing stores and whatnot. We just have recycling companies that don't really recycle everything. They oppose composting but i don't what i can. I just hope and pray that my future is so much brighter than my present and past. Any advice you have for me. What do you think is wrong? want more any info just ask.

Public Comments

1. Stay true to who u are and Mr.Right will come along in your life when u least expext it. Just keep ur head up and stop trying to fit-in so hard like it does not matter if u have any friends as long as u do wat u need to do so that u can do what u want to do.
2. im sure people like you its just people are very stuck up now i am same as u . my family dont even like being around me lol. but i try keep myself happy by listnin to music and writing. people who have bad past WILL have a better future because it will get to the part wen we cant take no more thn go out and do something. i never thut somebody wud ever love me about 1 2 years ago an now im engaged so it just proves things get better :) good luck! xxx
3. relax! don't worry nothings wrong with u just lay back and try to go out more and socialize with other people more.
4. Maybe you need to be a bit more proactive and ask people to go out and do things with you rather than waiting for others to invite you out. Why don't you try getting numbers off those friends you hang out with at school and phone them for a chat sometimes. Or perhaps ask them to hang out with you in a setting outside of school.
5. some people are very crude to kids these days, but it you want people to like you what you have to do is go meet them out there in the world even though sometimes they don't care to hang out with you you should continue to try to meet other people and then you may find what you are looking for in life.
6. Your actually pretty normal for a potentially successful person in college. Very few of my best friends in college/after school were very popular in high school, but all were brilliant, wonderful friends to get to know later. Look into taking some classes at the college level while your still in high school. Get to know students older than you, who are in school because they choose to be rather than because they have to be, your likely to have a lot more in common.