Natwerk Designs

My poor innocent little sister has pictures of her and her "boyfreind" ......?

making out!! I am really upset at her stupidity! She is only 13 years old and I DO NOT want her to take these kind of pictures. I was looking though her camera and I saw them, it disgust me! There was also a picture where hes like touching her chest and shes like holding up the peace sign in the bathroom as well as infrount of the dirty mirror....i made no sense what so ever! I am so upset, should i talk to her, or her parents about this? Should I just let it be? I can never see her as my little sister ever again! P.S. What in the world is a "boo"??

Public Comments

1. the world these days.... take the camera so she can't delete them and give it to the parents. it may seem harsh, but if you talk to her, she'll just delete them before you can do anything about it. then after you do it tell your sister so she's ready for your parents. those pics might've been ok in the next 2-4 years, but right now, that's terrible behavior(that society has accepted), not typical teen. sorry, having a sex talk with an older brother would be worse than the parents thing. and boo means like boyfriend/girlfriend, my signifigant other, my love (it's not a bad word) you don't want your sister to keep doing this and be called "that s l u t" at school. p.s. talk to the boyfriend before this stuff leads to other things i don't mean to say ur sis is a slu*, but she may be percieved this way if she does stuff like this. ------------------- everyone, please stop shrugging this off just because that's what some other little slu* 13 year olds are doing!!! they are turning into women, so they should start to grow up and act classy, we have enough of those not so innocent girls in the world, why should we act like friggin 13 year olds making out and taking pics and guys touching their chests is ok? because some other people are doing it so it's normal? i understand some people have different morals, but at least have some class. gosh, i am 13, and this type of behavior from girls my age really makes me sad. girls at my age are getting pregnant and it's just like some girls don't have standards for themselves anymore. sorry for all the angriness in my writing, but it's just so sad seeing the image that media is saying is ok. im glad you care enough for your sister to think about how this could affect her. we can have fun with out ruining our reputations. Edit(sorry i keep adding and adding): why don't you just try showing her the question you made and the answers and explain to her that you saw the pictures, so keep her camera and hide it so she can't do anything until you talk to her, then you can decide by if she gets angry or not on whether to tell your parents or not.
2. be a brother. beat the crap out of her boyfriend for doing that. Let him know that if he hurts her hes dead.
3. you're a very caring brother...but she being a typical like 15 year old... just talk to her about being safe and stuff like that...she's growing up :) a boo is a boyfriend
4. DUDE RELAX, SHE'S A GROWING WOMAN. SHE WANTS TO EXPLORE THINGS JUST LIKE YOU. SHES GROWING UP MAN AND YOU NEEDA LET GO. SHE'LL HUMP JUST LIKE YOU,YOU LIKE PUSS AND SHES GONNA LIKE MEAT. THATS IT BUBBA!
5. okay she is only 13 and she should not be doing things like this i agree with u completely and i think that i would have her best friend talk to her b/c she will never listen to you trust me i have try ed . oh i found out that boo is like when u get turned on to someone like get attracted something like that. oh search ask or something i will send u the answer when i find out OK? e-mail me jkielczyk@yahoo.com
6. Don't talk to your sister first. She'll deny it, for sure. You should talk to your parents, she shouldn't be doing that at 13! My brother is protective over me too, but for all the right reasons, you should take the camera from her. She might hate you, but its better than being a known as a s l u t. Be a responsible sibling!;)
7. At 13, she's probably more likely to rebel, if you tell her she can't do something. You do seem like a typical caring older brother. It's normal that you're upset. You are now needing to see your younger sister in a different light. She's growing up, and it's difficult to accept right now, but in time, you will. Just remember that she WILL grow up to be a woman, and you always seeing her as your baby sister, will only upset you (and possibly push her away as she gets older, and you get more controlling--because you care about her as your baby sister). Instead of giving her a chance to rebel, sit down with her and have a serious conversation with her. Tell her the facts, the consequences, and the connotation of her actions and decisions. If you treat her like she can make the decision on her own, she's more likely to think about it. After telling her everything she should know, then just let her decide. She is going to make mistakes in her life. It's inevitable. She's lucky to have a caring brother to guide her, but it's best that you just guide her, versus tell her what she should do and what she can and cannot do. I agree 13 is quite young to behave like this, but if she's well informed, she can make a more informed decision. And as the above answers stated, "boo" is slang for "boyfriend" or "girlfriend." I believe they are used interchangeably. I hope all goes well.
8. dont go to anyone... its no ones business but hers and his the only thing you need to every worry about with a little sister is abuse... and thats when you get worried. everyone goes threw that phase were all human sex is human kissing is just as human how were you made right? she may be young but everyone experiments most the time if you get someone in trouble they will just get mad and make it worse i wouldnt suggest bringing it up specially if your parents are like most parents of girls...
9. I understand how you might feel., the reason shes taking pictures of them doing these things is for myspace., that's the numb 1 reason teens take pictures....of anything., and the peace sign thing is an almost positive those are on MySpace peace signs are really popular.... okay the making out is not a big deal....sometimes things happen.......but if he has his hand in places they shouldn't be you should sit down and talk to her... even if it is ackwardd say i know you did these things and im not mad.... i justdon'tt want him to hurt you.... if you keep lettings this happen it could lead to s e x and all kinds of others ...i know youdon'tt want that.., just explain to her that she can say no. and if he loves her he'll still stick around, but you can't stop looking at her as your little sister...things happen, and in the world these days teens arepleasuredd more than ever., just listen the radio for a little while., but i do suggest you don't tell you parents., because it'll just make her hide the things she does....it wont make her stop., it might even make her do more., as a way to rebel.
10. I know what you mean, my best friend was like that, only the pictures weren't just making out, it may seem unfair and you may not like it, but take the camera and tell your parents. She may hate you for it now, but you'll be saving her from humiliation and the kids at school. Don't talk to her until after you already have the pictures, or else she'll just deny it. Then you or your parents need to have "The Talk" with her because kids today are more pressured to have sex and do other things like that than they have ever been in the past. And if you don't talk about being safe now, you may just end up with a niece or a nephew in the next couple of years. Hope I helped. and boo isn't bad, it just means boyfriend or girlfriend.