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do women realize that their past relationships do matter to a guy?

this one last question for the night- everybody wants to find their "perfect mate" and good luck to all, you deserve it my question is, is that it seems american women like to hook up with "bad boys" (ie druggies drunks etc.) sleep with an excessive amount of them...build their personal numbers up high, have children out of wedlock, basically make themselves very undesirable as a "perfect mate " . After they "ruin" their lives, they want to find a "nice guy" to pick up the pieces and try to fix their lives. I gave up on what I saw as the available "singles pool" here, moved to germany and found a good wife. I just want to know people opinions on how we can improve this trend, that is ruining the american family. Check this link out.. http://www.innovations-report.com/html/reports/studies/report-49818.html to answer a few things 1. she was a virgin 2. German food is great. Beer is at the table everynight (in moderation of course) to answer IB-WIGGLY yes, it does suck for nice guys. To all the women that think i played a bunch of girls before being married....I am a nice guy...I did not build up my numbers, and the dating problem was because of not meeting women with morals This question does not really relate to the younger women ( high school and younger) but it might be a valuable thing to think about... you ARE the future. And like it or not, the future of the american family falls heavily on the behavior of our women.

Public Comments

1. Understood. But even the good women have to put up with guys bullsh*t as well. You all aren't innocent.
2. i agree with what you said. girls like that give girls like me a bad rep. i hate that. when it is my tI'me, a good man will come into my life. I'm in no rush. im still young. but i wish that girls would have more respect for themselves. maybe things will be a lot different if females took that into consideration.
3. Want to know something!! I am married now and he met me when I was 1 month pregnant. Well it was his choise to stay and I wasn't looking for anyone to pick up the peices! So you know what! I don't agree
4. Oh shut up.. No one cares... Thats just how we are. Get over it!
5. Easy, move to a more mature country where the people are as level headed as yourself. I dont mean that as sarcasm, I noticed the same thing and I almost have to bite my lip when they want instant gratification and unconditional forgiveness of their past actions. Now whats really funny is when they think youre the bad guy because you dont want a skank. I personally havent even begun dating yet because I havent found anyone that I think I could love.
6. What about the guy's past relationship, unless it is death threating the past should stay in the past.
7. That's very much a generalization of American women. Your pool must have been shallow. You're married and living in Germany. Don't concern yourself with that trend any longer.
8. you are prob one of those guys that was screwing those women and made them feel less than you but news flash all women arent like that. and women dont just ruin their lives all by themselves some women are content in their life, you might want to bite your tongue you dont know what your wife was doing before you went to germany, think about it. If a woman with kids is considered baggage guess what those same kids have a father so wouldnt that make him the same as the woman I cant wait till the day you come home early from work and catch ms. goody two shoes with some gangsta wearing a bandana and tat's sticking a needle in her asss while he is doing her from behind.
9. Speaking from a mans perspective,a womans past doesnt matter that much to me.We all make mistakes.Hopefully your marriage works if you get my drift.Ps,bet she is a good cook huh?
10. Ok i dont plain on doing that im a very healthy active 13 year old girl and besides the age i plain to be that way all i ask 4 is a guy that likes football or soccer nice gentle loveing guy who stands up for his girl and i found him at a young age and i love him and i will only have sex with a guy that ive been dateing for 3 years ive only been dateing him for 6 months so not yet.
11. NOT ALL OF THEM WOMEN LIKE THAT. EACH PERSON HAS HER OWN NEEDS IN LIFE. I TOTALLY AGREED WITH YOU SOME OF THEM LIKE THAT......QLKM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
12. Agree, the women continue to go down the wrong path then wake up after they are all used up. Some is their fault some is the guys who have ruined them by abuse, cheating, etc. It sucks for us nice guys who get used and abused.
13. First of all, all women aren't like that. The reason they want to find a good guy because a lot of guys are hard to trust and tricks. A woman can't walk away from their pregnancy, but a guy can. An American woman or any would not just hook up with druggies and drunks, we have common sense!! That's just the stereotypes you men have tried to put on us. Those are the guys who are undesireable. We want to find a good guy not to pick up the ruins, but to promise not to treat them that way. If you haven't noticed, it's easier to find a reliable woman than a reliable man. Hope I answered your question because you were totally off and opposite there! You're right about one thing, your but would never find no beer in the table or food if you were here in america because of that trash you just said about American women. You don't know if your wife is what you think, she can be a tramp just like you think we are!!
14. I don't think they realize at all... I honestly don't think ANY woman realizes this.